Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Fakes Orgasms?

We usually only talk about women faking orgasms. While no credible research yet exists to confirm it, men have talked quietly about faking orgasms for many years, and it’s now a topic getting some attention in the media . Anecdotally, having spoken with thousands of men and women about their sex lives, I can attest to the fact that both men and women fake orgasms. Why do people fake orgasms?

The two most common reasons women give for faking orgasms are to make their male partners feel better and to end sex when they are tired. Women report feeling like their male partners are not satisfied until they “give” their female partner an orgasm, thus sex will continue until the woman either has an orgasm, or fakes orgasm and this is not the better sex which everyone wants.

Men also give the “to get it over with” excuse when asked why they would fake an orgasm, as well as describing the feeling of expectation. Despite the lies about sex we’re supposed to believe, men can’t always have orgasms whenever they want, and sometimes they’ll fake it rather than deal with what’s actually going on for them.

Those are the reasons people give for faking orgasms. But it’s worth asking why people even think about faking orgasms rather than talking to their partner, asking for something different, or simply saying “I’d tired I want to stop having sex now.” There’s no easy answer to this question, but like it or not, faking orgasms is a form of lying to your partner, and if sexual health is your goal, lying about sex is something worth cutting down, or cutting out altogether. In conclusion I want to tell to everyone if you have problem like fake orgasms you can try some pills like Semenax or VigRX.

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